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I, for one, will never be posting on this site again.
On the payback front, I've filed a formal complaint with Paypal and Bank of America. BoA has credited me my damages (about $290) as they begin their investigation. I'm in the process of contacting the Better Business Bureau.
In addition, I have sent a Payment Request to our mutual “friend” as well as an email reminding him that claims and legal action are currently in motion, in an effort to at least try to make things easier. I doubt we'll see any action there, but I'd recommend doing something at the very least.
Has anyone taken similar action that either reflects or adds to our attempt at a refund? I'd like to hear from others in this boat, or anyone who may have been wronged like this, so we can do everything possible. I've also contacted my lawyer and an international crimes specialist to guide me through this difficult process.
Having dealt with PayPal scammers before, I have a feeling you'll be getting your money back. If the guy never responds on PayPal, you'll get your money back, and if he does respond he's not going to be able to prove that he sent the item, so you'll win your dispute most likely.
Everyone should definitely open a claim in PayPal and escalate it to a dispute ASAP, explaining that, as a group, you all feel you've bought the same pack, and that the guy lied and took money from a lot of people.
You shouldn't have opened a Payment Request though, as that is now a separate transaction, and he will be able to file a dispute against you if he pays you, saying that you didn't send the pack back (even though he never sent it). At least I'm pretty sure that's how that could end up going. You should leave everything in just the one transaction, and allow PayPal to judge the dispute.
Again, everyone ESCALATE YOUR DISPUTES TO CLAIMS ASAP. It will show PayPal that it is a serious problem.
That said, saying “I, for one, will never be posting on this site again.” is an over-reaction. The mods do the best job they can to eliminate scammers, but even still, its the buyers responsibility to do some research for themselves and make sure you're not being scammed. If you want to say “I, for one, will never be buying anything on this site again.” that's fine, but completely removing yourself from the community because you got scammed one time is an over-reaction.