First of all…gbmasterman, there is a private messenger system so that you already can address a single user specifically. It doesn't require an e-mail address or anything. You just click the “You have so-and-so new messages” link up there in the top right of the screen, click the New Post button, and take it from there.
Second, to actually answer the topic:
My first and foremost concern is censorship, or hopefully the lack thereof. My opinion is that any “offensive” language used in the films Ghostbusters and Ghostbusters II should be permitted on the board. Basically, that limits us to anything that's considered PG-13. (the worst possible terms in that category being “shit” and “God damn”)
It is my personal belief that censorship in written form is foolish, because anyone and everyone can tell that “sh*t” is still “shit”, and it's just insulting to our collective intelligence for someone to believe that removing one letter suddenly makes it a different, more friendly word.
Of course, common sense should still apply. Calling someone a dirty name is flaming, no matter what the name is. It doesn't matter if I call a person a “dick” or a “doofus”, either way I'm still insulting him and that shouldn't be allowed, and the language should have nothing to do with it.
There can also be cases where excessive swearing should be dealt with. For instance, just because you're allowed to say “shit” doesn't mean you should be allowed to use it twenty times in a single post.
The point here should be that the rulemakers have enough confidence in the maturity of the people here to allow us to use PG-13 language as we see fit, but it should still be dealt with when it gets out of hand. The message should be to use common sense, and anything less would be to treat us like children, which none of us (hopefully) are.