1.Language-if it's in the flicks and on regular prime-time TV, it's all good. The other words are off limits and unecessary. Like someone else said, if it's gonna be such a big issue, set up the board to automatically **** out the words.
2.Arguments-Okay, just because two people are aruging a point in a thread does NOT mean it should be locked. Unless it's getting too out of hand, healthy debating is good to try and share your views with others while hearing someone else's and maybe one of your views will change.
3.Double Posts-As already stated, the number of posts increases the number of backlog pages. Why the hell do we gotta go all the way to page 10 to make sure we're not restarting a started topic. I think after 4 or 5 pages, idle threads should begin to disappear. So if you got a thread that's 5 months old on the last page and someone starts a new one of the same type, delete the old one. Otherwise, if someone double posts before the old ones are gone, lock it but for god sakes put the link to the old one.
4.Banning-I like a combination of suggestions. I think if a member has become disruptive, a mod should ban them to start off, and then a poll be started to decide if they stay banned or if they come back. People who cause trouble should be placed on a mod's probationary list and carefully monitored for an unspecified amount of time. If they continue to act up, then the banning takes place. Or, if people feel this is too unfair, the other suggestion I can make is set up a kind of legal system. Appoint a “judge”, arguers for the case, and set up a meeting via a chat room to ultimately decide the fate.
5.Moderators-Mods should have hands-off policy. They don't need to mention every small tiny infraction in threads. What they should do is reply to threads like regular members when serious rules haven't been broken, and then when they have act like mods. Most of us don't need babysitters. Also, the thread locking…if it's felt a mod jumped the shark in locking a thread they felt needed to be, there should be a way to have it reopened. Also, we should be able to vote for mods for more than ONE DAY and have the option to initiate an impeachment process for those abusing their power. Also, Mods should be made to remember they too are human, and if someone points out a mistake they made, that should NOT be met with any kind of disciplinary action unless it was done so in a disruptive and harmful manner.
6.Topic or not-sometimes, people're gonna go a bit off topic ‘cause that’s human nature. Something is said that is reminded of something else, so they begin to discuss that. So what? If no one has a problem with the new sub-topic, it should be left alone, not instructed to go back ON topic. Think of it this way, saves another thread. I've seen topics correct themselves after a while. However, if someone comes in and says something that has nothing to do with anything, that's not so good. Also, anyone who has a problem with a topic should be reminded they are not obligated to read every single thread if not a mod. They can pick and choose what they want to participate in.
7.Politics (Not the board)-It's a subject that happens every day. It's always changing so there's always something new. If some civil minded individuals wanna discuss current politics, LET THEM. Other people who don't like politics don't have to read those topics. We're big people, we can make up our own minds on what topics we're interested in and what we're not. And lord knows I need someplace to bitch about my current mayor!
8.Newbie Thread-There should be a permanent thread where new members can come in and introduce themselves, since all the “HI!” threads appear to get locked.
9.Abusiveness-Insults are gonna happen, it's a fact. Mild ones can be overlooked. But when members go outta their way to insult or abuse another member, that's a big no-no. No more wars, no more petty rivalries. Civilized arguments or none at all.
10.By The People-Let's try to succeed where the American government (as far as I know) failed. This was once said to be a board by the Ghostheads for the Ghostheads. Fine. Let's keep it that way. Moderators and administrators should work WITH US, not AGAINST US. Ghostheads should work together. You wanna keep this place good, then work at it. You can bitch and complain all you like, but unless you do something about it it ain't gonna get done.
My two cents.