Having playing been playing the Open Beta, and following the game since Cryptic acquired the rights to the game after Perpetual folded…waiting a little while before playing is not that bad of an idea. While they gave made great strides in correcting problems in Open Beta…there are still a lot there that needs to be. As far as your friend is concerned…even though I have no plans to play the Klingon Empire, I do agree with him that the Klinks got the short end of the stick…but think of it this way…how many Star Trek series every revolved around them specifically? My point being that Federation is where Star Trek has always been at…and that's how it will always be in STO. Having said that, I need to say a lot of work has been done on the Klingons since the announcement of how the Klingons will be played in December till now…and Cryptic has said that they will continue to work on them as the game carries on. Cryptic also is looking to put out a massive patch 45 days after release to add more content (first rounds of end game stuff), correct bugs that were missed in Beta or didn't have time to be fix and there is a rumor that a lot of Klink stuff is to be added in the 45 day patch.
As far as the ship names are concerned…you should never see duplicate ship (apparently you will never be placed in a shard with a ship of the same name) according to an early post by a Dev.
Anyway. I am having a hella time. I hope some of you will join up sometime…I am going cruiser for ship class so keep a look out for me